Relationships are very important to life.
Healthy, thriving, loving and blissful relationships are what everyone desires.
It is key to living a life filled with purpose and it is important for your complete happiness in life. The opposite of this which is being in a wrong relationship, can be a complete horror and nightmare.
The good news is that it is never too late to turn around when you find yourself moving in the wrong direction.
HERE ARE 8 SIGNS YOU ARE IN WRONG RELATIONSHIP
#1 YOU SAID YES FOR THE WRONG REASON
A lot of people say yes to things for many reasons, and a relationship is no different.
Some wrong reasons for committing to a relationship are
- Pressure from family
- You feel you are getting old
- A financial escape plan
- You got pregnant and you felt it is just the right thing to do
- Everyone is getting in a relationship so you think you should
#2 YOU MADE A DECISION UNDER PRESSURE/DURESS
Maybe you became pregnant and the fear of having the baby alone, or not stepping up to do the right thing as a mam made you get into it too fast without thinking.
Making important relationship decision is hard enough, the added pressure of things like a pregnancy can cause people to make decisions they can regret.
Not that there aren’t those who make this decisions and stick with it, but it’s best not to allow things like a pregnancy be the basis for committing to a relationship or you might come to regret it.
#3 YOU CONSTANTLY FIND FAULTS
You both find the most insignificant things and blow it out of proportion.
You find faults in the most simplest thing, even the way they talk irritates you.
#4 YOU FEEL NO PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
In the right relationship, you would not be able to keep your hands to yourself.
There should be sparks flying between you both. Even if you are not yet married and have both agreed to wait till marriage before have sex, the desire to have be with your partner sexually, should must be there.
If it is not, then you are better off as friends than people in a romantic relationship.
#5 YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF
If you find yourself constantly suppressing yourself and acting in ways that are not consistent with your character, then you are making a mistake in your relationship.
A relationship is not an avenue to exhibit bad character and if you have bad character, then you need to work on changing it, but you should absolutely be yourself.
If you are not changing for the better, then its a wrong kind of change.
#6 YOU HAVE DIFFERENT VALUES
The very basis of a strong healthy relationship is having core values that align.
If your basic core values do not have a meeting point, then you should not be together
#7 YOU WANT DIFFERENT THINGS OUT OF LIFE
You want kids and a picket fence, your partner on the other hand has stated that they never wants to have kid. You probably should not be in a relationship with each other
It will be an issue that will destroy the relationship.
Maybe at the beginning, it seemed like you both wanted the same things, but somewhere along the line, things changed.
People change, and if the change is not bringing you both together as it should, then it is certainly breaking you apart.
#8 YOU LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
You are in a relationship, but your heart belongs to another.
you might not be physically cheating on your partner but you are cheating emotionally. Pinning for someone else while in a relationship will make you not give your all in your relationship.
The worst thing you can do is to be in a relationship with someone, while loving another.